Have you met your co-founder?


How many of you have a co-founder in another country that you've never met in person? Is this plausible for a startup?

An example of this is DHH from 37signals but I don't know any other so I guess is probably doable.


asked Oct 13 '09 at 00:42
333 points

8 Answers


I'm in Boston and my co-founder's in Europe and it's worked very well so far (10 months and counting) despite the distance.

BUT we have a long history (grew up together, started a company together in the past) which I think is the #1 reason why distance has not been an issue.

Even with that history, he splits his time, spending half of it here in Boston and the other half in Europe. Plus he and his wife plan on moving back here in the next several months.

I realize Skype is amazing (esp video chat!) and tools like Basecamp/ Trac/ Wikis make collaboration easier, but I think there's no substitute for knowing your co-founder inside and out and working in the same room with him/her on a regular basis.

And the thought of starting a company with someone I've never met just scares me. :)

Just my two cents,

answered Oct 13 '09 at 05:03
41 points


Reading all the answers there seems to be a pattern. Where either there is some sort of shared history or the founders have worked together in some capacity together prior to moving away.

A question I would ask would be 'is this your first startup'?

If it is then you should do your level best to get a co-founder who you could physically meet with. Especially if your product/service is targeted towards one particular location eg. Europe. If you are currently based in the US and your partner in Europe there will be a huge strain on him to both keep up and do biz development.

If this isn't your first startup then I guess you must have already experienced how challenging it is to keep the motivation levels high and keep moving forward when the chips are down.

Founders in different location adds further pressure to a startup environment where there is already a ton to begin with. So I would do my best to avoid it as much as I could.

answered Oct 14 '09 at 14:56
Usman Sheikh
1,728 points


I'm usually not an old-fashioned guy, and don't like meeting people on that much.

But in the case of a co-founder, I think it's very useful to meet occasionally in-person.

answered Oct 14 '09 at 02:29
Dharmesh Shah
2,865 points


We are 3 founders and we did not meet #3 for the first few month. However in the long run I recommend meeting as it will greatly help keeping up the motivation!

answered Oct 13 '09 at 00:51
The Undefined
111 points
  • Thanks for the answer. Can you tell us more? Where're you 3 from? – Tiago 14 years ago
  • Me and co-founder #2 are in Berlin, Germany. Our co-founder #3 is in Amsterdam, Netherlands. So we pay ~150,- / EUR per round trip ticket which is ok. If you're located further away you should try to meet, in that case I would schedule as much time together working on the product as possible. – The Undefined 14 years ago


That sounds crazy, personally I would never do that. Even trusting someone who you know for ages is hard, trusting someone on who you never met personally, that's plain insane :)

Maybe I take my startups too serious.

answered Oct 13 '09 at 01:12
The Dictator
2,305 points


Timesnapper is an example of a couple of partners who started out without meeting.

answered Oct 13 '09 at 04:03
Darrel Miller
246 points


There are advantages in not having to meet with partners regularly. Like not getting on each other nerves, at least not in person.

But accountability is lower, in person communication can not be replaced entirely, and there is always the risk of your partner simply disappearing, especially if you never met him. Not that it can't happen with a friend you have known forever but

Remeber, this is the internet, never met him means he could be an alien zombie nazi, trying to take over the world with your competence and assistance.

answered Oct 13 '09 at 04:19
Slav Ivanov
1,146 points


My co-founder and I worked together in our old jobs. After that we shared an office for a year before he moved back to Australia with his family. Now we work together from different countries in vastly different time zones (I'm in the U.S.).

In my opinion, it is much, much harder to work virtually than to share the same physical space. For anything requiring design or brainstorming, it's much easier to share a common whiteboard than to collaborate via chat or email.

The great thing about having worked closely together for several years is that you get a sense of your co-founder's work habits, personality, and sense of humor. Understanding these things makes it much easier to work together over the phone.

answered Oct 13 '09 at 06:05
D Thrasher
894 points

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