How to deal with rude comments and feedback?


I run a website that conducts short story writing competitions for 10 months (each month different genre), and publish an anthology at the end of the year containing all the winning stories. It's just a platform for aspiring writers to make their portfolio by getting published in a paperback.

It's clearly mentioned in the submit-form on the website where the participants submit their entries that we are not going to remunerate the winners. We have spoken about the copyrights and submission guidelines clearly in English, instead of legal terms so that participants will understand them easily. Still, I get many emails inquiring about the same. It gets on my nerves, but I reply to them all patiently and politely.

Conducting this competition isn't cost-free and since we are just a start-up we are just going to break-even (no profits at all). As a writer, I feel that I am doing good by providing an opportunity to other aspiring writers like me to get published. I would have appreciated such opportunities as a writer.

Why do participants demand money when we have already mentioned the no-remuneration condition? Short stories must be of 5000-7500 words to enter our contest. If a writer doesn't like the word limit then he might not participate. Why do they write mails asking me to change the way I run my business? It's not like we aren't getting entries. Many participate, and they are quite happy with the competition. Many participated more than twice, even after not winning.

I know a business exists for its customers, and I believe in keeping participants happy by judging the entries fairly. The submission duration is big enough too. How should I handle all the negative feedback that I get? I don't want to keep explaining myself to everyone who questions the way the site is run. I also don't want to ignore the feedback as I wouldn't have liked it if someone ignored my emails.

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asked Oct 15 '12 at 16:52
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  • no reason for downvote this, the questions is relevant – South 11 years ago
  • What do you mean for "published"? In a lot of the writing world "published" is used to mean "picked up by a mainstream publisher, paid, and book in usual major retail channels". This is changing a bit with the rise of online publishing, and is different in nonfiction, but there's still a lot of expectation that that's how it works, and it's very common to have scams which say differently, so most people have a bad reaction to anything different. I hope you DO have something better in mind, but I couldn't tell exactly what -- does your revenue come from selling books or elsewhere? – Jack V. 11 years ago
  • We are just associated with a publisher and we get paid for conducting the competition. Our revenue model is basically an advertising model. We put up ads of new books on our website. – User21143 11 years ago

4 Answers


1) The fact that you're getting a lot of people missing that information means that you need to look at how you are presenting that info. After a quick glance at your site it wasn't immediately obvious to me.

2) You're fighting against the fact that most writing competitions do reward authors. So people already have preconceptions of what the model is.

3) The model you have is one that the people I know who are writers often have... strong... opinions on. Free writing is like red rag to a bull to many people so you will get angry letters pretty much regardless on that front.

4) Your market is the people who cannot get published. One of the many reasons people don't get published is they don't submit things that publishers want to print, or in the way that the publishers want them to submit it. You've self-selected a market that will cause problems. They often have a limited idea of how publication works, how much work is involved, etc (e.g. I'm amazed at the number of people who think that the majority cost of a paper book is the paper).

I'd suggest getting a designer and professional writer involved to tidy up the copy and presentation to make your product offering clearer. I'd look at the kind of feedback you're getting and build out FAQs for the site that will answer some of the questions people have before they send off an email. I'd also use those to build template responses so that you have something easy to send when folk miss the FAQs.

answered Oct 15 '12 at 23:00
Adrian Howard
2,357 points
  • You made really clear and simple answers. Great! – Evik James 11 years ago
  • Many published authors participated too & I know few competitions that do not pay at all. I guess they are moaning just because we are new. – User21143 11 years ago


If you are getting a lot of complaints, maybe you do need to look at your business model and tweak it.

What is behind your customers complaints? What need do they have that you aren't meeting? How can you meet that need?

For instance, if you think people are feeling that there should be some prize, you could look for advertising sponsors who donate a prize to the winning story in exchange for acknowledgement on your site.

answered Oct 15 '12 at 20:03
Susan Jones
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  • Thank you for your suggestion! I started working on finding advertising sponsors. :) – User21143 11 years ago
  • Awesome! Good luck – Susan Jones 11 years ago


Write a standard response to the letters, and just copy-paste it into your email program when people write to you complaining.

answered Oct 15 '12 at 19:46
Giles Thomas
1,540 points
  • I did that. Thanks for the suggestion! :D – User21143 11 years ago


A couple things:

There will be people will disagree with your business and be critical about it. Note it, but don't get overly upset that you can't please everyone. Take feedback from users. If it's something you hear often, really consider whether it will work. Having really thought about it, you can either decide that it is in fact a good idea and you'll try to accommodate it, or you'll decide that it's not a good fit for your business and have a well thought-out explanation of why you don't wish to do it.

It looks like you have a FAQ already which is good. If there are questions that are frequently asked that aren't mentioned there, add them. Also consider adding some "why" questions. People often feel better when they know why a rule or policy is in place. The "why" can range from you just don't have time to do x, to it's just not something you feel fits the business.

Lastly, like Giles mentioned, also have standard responses to common questions/complaints and have then ready for copy/paste. Try to make them not sound too generic (a good way would be to take an existing reply and tweak it to remove the specifics of that recipient).

answered Oct 15 '12 at 22:26
386 points
  • People ask the same questions that are on FAQ. I upload these ads on FB. The ads say 'log in to our website for more details' along with the website URL, still people comment on the ad, 'please share the website id. I want to know more about it'. – User21143 11 years ago

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